It’s that time of year again and Christmas is in the air. Some don’t like that it seems to come so early, but I just can’t seem to get enough of the feelings it brings. When there’s even a slightest possibility that the radio stations may be playing Christmas music, I start scanning the airways.When I see the lights and hear the sounds of Christmas, memories flood my mind as remembrances of times long past wrap me warmly in their embrace.
When Christmas songs play on the radio I’m once again snuggled by my grandpa’s side as we drive through our small town searching the neighborhood roofs for Santa and his reindeer. I’m almost positive we spotted him one year.We’d laugh and chat as we wondered what treasures we’d find under the tree the next morning. Then we’d make our way down Main Street, “Ooohing” and “Aaahing” over the brilliant lights and decorations covering the streetlamps and storefronts, while the sweet sounds of “Silver Bells” drifted dreamily from the car radio.
My grandpa has been gone for several years now and though there are no more Christmas rides through the small town I grew up in, I still have those memories to bring him close once again.
Looking back I can’t recall many of the gifts I’ve received through the years but I still remember and cherish the memories of the time spent with my family and the traditions we’ve shared.
I have children of my own now and we’ve started traditions with our children in hopes that they too will have memories that they will treasure throughout their lives.
One of our traditions includes an annual Christmas Eve trip to Grandma’s for dinner and a “talent” show with all the cousins. The cousins have a gift exchange (they draw names earlier in the year and all the presents must be under a set amount).
Then finally, the best part of all, they all open their present from Grandma and Grandpa. Every year it’s the same present – pajamas. The kids laugh and giggle as they watch to see what kind of pajamas everyone gets and then they race to an empty room to put them on and come out for pictures. Grandma has asked the kids over the years if they wouldn’t rather have something different “this” year and each year she is met with the same answer, a resounding “NO!” Each grandchild whether they’re 9 or 23 insists that they must get pajamas from Grandma and Grandpa. It’s tradition and they’ll have no part of changing it.
According to the article, “Family Traditions Are Important” by Marsha K. Weaver, “Family traditions are the threads of life that bind us together as families.” Traditions not only strengthen us, they help connect us to our pasts and give us a sense of who we are and where we come from.
Our families are a great blessing and the holidays are a wonderful time to thoroughly enjoy them and help create memories that will bind us together and last a lifetime.

Do you ever feel like some people are just gluttin for punishment? Some days I think that would describe my husband and my son.

